Patti Stanger’s Wedding Day Details: Part 2

Stanger already has a sexy new bod, but she’s started working with celeb trainer Christopher Lane to get her best ever. “I’m hoping for the cover of Shape not Playboy!" she says. No matter how many bicep curls she does, she still prefers to cover her arms so she’s leaning towards a sexy sheath with flattering 3/4 length sleeves. “It’s about knowing what looks good on your body,” she cautions brides. Psst, check out our dress guide to find the most flattering fit for you! And, if you're also looking to get in shape for your big day -- we've got just the program for you!

The curvaceous star is opting for a deep v-neck dress, preferably with romantic lace or beading detail. She’s been scouting out designs by Badgley Mischka and Monique Lhuillier. But make no mistake, while Stanger may be a celebrity, she’s far from a bridezilla: this modern bride is most likely letting her 6-8 bridesmaids choose their own black gowns.

For her bachelorette party, options include hitting up Las Vegas for relaxing spa time and a little debauchery or taking a girls-only long weekend to Cancun or Cabo. For someone as successful as Stanger -- besides her show, she also has a new book, Become Your Own Matchmaker, a partnership with 1-800-Flowers, and a matchmaker service for the rest of us, psxoxo.com -- she is remarkably down to earth. The matchmaker chocks it up to the fact that at age 48, she’d prefer a wedding that’s effortless rather than extravagant.

“It’s always all about me. At this point, I don’t need the spotlight,” she says, “This is for my friends and family.”